Marlys Diekoff

Marlys Diekoff, 86, died peacefully surrounded by family on Friday, Feb. 13. That Friday afternoon, it felt as though gravity loosened its grip for a moment, as the universe had to steady itself again after losing her. Born on Sept. 15, 1939 in Forest Lake, Marlys entered the world that she delicately shaped with her radiance, love and grace. On April 8, 1961 she chose her greatest companion in life, Paul Diekoff. Together they shared a beautiful partnership that would span nearly 66 years. They had a bond and created a story that is not only measured by time, but by devotion, strength, and a quiet, but everlasting choice to walk hand in hand through life together. Marlys did not view service and volunteerism as an obligation, but as an extension of who she was. Her commitment was obvious through her steady involvement in the Early American Glass Club, the Philanthropic Educational Organization (PEO), the Jane Austen Society of North America (JASNA), the University of Minnesota Women's Club, the National Parent Teacher Association (PTA), she was also a Girl Scout leader and was a member of the St. John the Baptist parish for over 50 years. Outside of her commitments and volunteerism, her devotion was always to her family. She was a beloved mother, grandmother and great-grandmother to her four children, seven grandchildren and great-grandson. Her love was always present and showed itself faithfully in bleachers, auditoriums, arenas and graduation ceremonies. Nothing brought her greater joy than to see her children and grandchildren grow fully into their own lives. Her family describes her often as radiant, steadfast, sophisticated, adored, humble and fierce. Marlys is preceded in death by her father John Richard Brehm, mother Mary Blanche Brehm and brothers LeRoy Anderson Brehm and Lowell Jerome Brehm. Marlys is survived by her husband Paul and children Shellie (Steve) Matthes, Sheryl Diekoff, Paul Jr. (Lori) and Sheila (Rick) Thorud, Grandchildren Brittany Diekoff, Amanda Matthes, Helen (Andrew) Trapp, Melissa Thorud & Nick Ulmer, Hallie Diekoff & Justin Langer, Nick Thorud, Paul Diekoff III and great-grandson Hans Trapp. Funeral services will be held on Saturday, Feb. 21, at St. John the Baptist Church in New Brighton. Visitation at 10 a.m., Mass at 11 a.m. and a luncheon to follow. A livestream of the funeral will be available at https://stjohnnb.com/. If you wish to send flowers please send to St. John the Baptist Church in New Brighton.

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Marlys Diekoff

September 15, 1939 - February 13, 2026

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Marlys Diekoff

September 15, 1939 - February 13, 2026

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